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“There’s No Hope”: Stephen Curry Was Teary-Eyed & Frustrated Over Tough Change, Reveal Dell & Sonya

Michael Jordan once famously said “Maybe it’s my fault. Maybe I led you to believe it was easy, when it wasn’t.” As the glamour, success, and prowess of an NBA player gains the spotlight, it is easy to remove focus from the hard work, constant failures, and repeated attempts they had to go through to reach that high pedestal. Despite his father being a prominent NBA player, Stephen Curry earned everything on his own. Today, Steph is a recognizable NBA player in large part due to the hard work he put in, since his childhood.

No one knows more about the struggles of the Warriors star than his parents, Dell and Sonya Curry. During a conversation on Sonya’s Raising Fame podcast, Sonya highlighted how her eldest initially had the same shot-making skills as she did during her volleyball days. However, basketball is a different sport. And young Steph had to make some changes in order to compete at the college level. Dell described that his son’s shooting skills took almost a whole summer to be brought to a commendable level. When Dell couldn’t be present to train him, Sonya would take charge. Despite the encouragement from both parents, it was easy to get disheartened when success wouldn’t come quickly.



“He got really frustrated to the point where, you know, he would get upset, teary eyed, and then come in the house, and Dell and I would go ‘No, we can go back outside and work through that frustration’, because we always know there is a point where in anything we’re trying to accomplish, that we get frustrated and almost feel like ‘There’s no hope’ or you’re just not gonna do it” said Sonya. “And why? Why put in the extra little umph. And so, we always try to, you know, encourage him that way. Go back out ‘You got it, you got it.’”

Sonya also added that it didn’t help the fact that Steph’s younger brother, Seth, was already excelling with his shots. Through no miracle, but a series of hard-work, effort, and dedication, Stephen Curry improved. That struggle he faced to prepare for college allowed him to develop a skill. This has further enabled him to become the greatest three-point shooter of all time. On top of that, he has led his franchise to over four championship wins and earned numerous accolades along the way. In the end, Stephen Curry was the more successful brother!



Both Dell and Sonya not only acted as mentors, but inspirations for the Warriors star. In Steph’s words himself, “I saw my dad and how he carried himself as a professional and it helped me transition into the NBA.” About Sonya, he believed that “A lot of people say whatever defensive abilities I have, I get from her.”  Despite separating three years ago, Dell and Sonya have been a continuous source of support for Steph. At 36 years of age, and having spent over 15 years with the NBA, Stephen Curry may have now taken on a more stricter practice regime. However, he still does not carry fond memories of that grueling summer.

How did Stephen Curry describe his practice regime?

Eleven years before Dell and Sonya made the revelation to the world, Stephen Curry had already made his thoughts known on the decades old training session. According to reports, Curry’s release point was far too low for the level of a college athlete. He had to rework his whole shooting form. And this left a sour experience for Steph.



“(It was) the most frustrating summer for me,” said Curry during an 2013 interview. “I really couldn’t shoot outside the paint for like the first three weeks. All summer when I was at camps people were like, ‘Who are you, why are you playing basketball?’ I was really that bad for a month and a half (before) I finally figured it out.”

The frustration became noticeable to Seth, who described how his elder brother would cry at times. When the time came to put what he learned to the test, however, Curry did not disappoint. During his three-year stint at Davidson College, he went on to average 24.7 points by going 41.7% with his three-pointers, 47% with his field goals, and 87.5% with his free throws. After all, as Michael Jordan said “If you do the work, you get rewarded. There are no shortcuts in life.”